Its been quite some time since I actually posted something. Life's been a little on the hectic side and the situation got worse with my hard disk going for a six!! Anyways...well have been wanting to write something on this particular subject for quite some time now..am not able to give it a proper tittle...but lets see how it shapes up....
Well as usual my motivation to write on this subject came up after a usual major fight I had with a friend. In the end we sort of patched up with me giving in to certain issues which my good friend did not like me doing inspite of the fact that I am a little like that was very much evident from the formative years of the friendship.
The fundamentals of any relationship is based on the factors of trust and compromise. Even if one of the two is lost, the relationship goes to the gutter. Sometimes I wonder why we take so much effort to maintain certain relationships, compromising on things we value the most.... probably the person is valued more...but still....
Fights arguments all happen in relationships....if these things dont happen, the relation gets dry and monotonous....but then I guess we cant always end up on the winning side.... after the fight the other day it sort of dawned on me that sometime we need to loose to win, a victory more sweetened by the fact that the person we love still exists in our life bringing in the joy and happiness we seek.
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