Its a funny world.... am yet to find people who are self satisfied in life.... its always our nature never to realize the importance of what we have in hand.... we never appreciate what we have in hand.... be it career, be it love, be it friends.... be it anything...
Career....
Well we either aren’t satisfied with the working environment or we aren’t satisfied with the work.... and somehow if we are lucky enough to have both the pay might just suck big time and we crib about it.... fair enough, after all we do need money right!!!!
Friends....
We crib when our friends don’t look or think eye to eye with us. We sometime feel ignored because they didn’t tell something or include us in something, which we wanted to be informed or included in. Little do we realize that just because we haven’t been told something or haven’t been included in a particular activity does not mean that we mean little to them or they love us less. Funny part is even after understanding this part we sometimes feel a little sad, kya Karen... Dil ka Mamla Hai.... Emotions tho hoga hi!!! :)
Love.... :)
Well what do i say, X loves Y, Y doesn’t reciprocate, Y loves Z, Z doesn’t reciprocate and Z loves a another some T, kya karen...if love exists as a one way like this, we do have reciprocated love where expectations are so high that one falters and fumbles.... then they hold on...both not knowing why they are holding on or what makes them hold on when the whole damn relationship is dead and gone.... some may call it love...I prefer to call it stupidity because to me the minute a relationship brings in pain and agony...its everything but love....Am not an expert but I know for sure that in relationships we shouldn’t look at winning the war...we need not win every argument in a relationship...we can loose a couple to win the battle.... We need to most importantly understand and appreciate the other person in our life simply because they are special, the are special because they our a part of our life.... everything is easier said than done.... am not saying have put all that I have said in practice but am definitely trying to.... :)
Coming back to this funny world.... like I said we are not satisfied, one school of though says, if your satisfied you wont have the drive to excel, stagnation is in the vicinity and another says its mans perverse nature to always want what he cannot have!!!
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its not wanting more. man wants to move up. esteem is the deciding factor. satifaction and happiness are not the same. for happiness you dont ned anything. for satisfaction u need a lot of things, like a good pay, an air conditioner, scotch and a oyal enfield.
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