Drivers

I am wondering again. …and am wondering on what is that thing that shoulders or drives relations, the supporting pillars or drivers of a relationship. Well I don’t quite have what one would call the right amount of experience to comment on this issue, but nevertheless think I should be able to do some justice to the issue.

Relationships we refer shall mean and deem to include friendships, colleagues, boss – subordinate and any other link that could quite define a relation. Now we all get in and out of relationships, some of them are made for life, some of them are short term and some we don’t have a clue of as to when it started and when it ended.

The factors that drive a relation according to me would be trust, understanding, love, expectations, and compromise including other factors. Understanding, expectations, compromise are all offshoots of trust while trust is an effect of love. You can’t love somebody whom you just can’t trust. Trust is the one important and binding factor to a relationship.

So when there is trust, there will be love and when there is love there is understanding and expectations and when there is understanding, there is compromise and appreciation and when there is compromise and appreciation, there is more love.