Saturday, June 09, 2007

Jealousy is Cute!!!!

One of my good friends was like ‘DJ your jealous!!!’ and I was like ‘no am not’…for which she was like, ‘don’t get defensive I think it’s cute’…. Is it??? I really don’t know….

Well agreed that when you are really possessive about someone that you tend to get jealous, but more than possessiveness it’s the insecurity that stems from the relation that leads to the jealousy.

Insecurity could be due to a lot of reasons but I think it’s primarily due to not trusting the other person. Now trust is the pillar for any relationship….if that’s lost, there’s no relationship….as they say it takes years to build trust and a few seconds to break it!!
So, is jealousy still cute…. I guess it will be once we discount the insecurity factor :-)

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

just a week to go before u have disclose what the 'big step' was :)..
-A