I have finally decided to move on…. It has taken some time and I must say quite a task to accomplish especially after putting my heart and soul into the whole affair, but I guess it was the best thing to do for the both of us and somebody had to do it and as usual it had to be me…. Am gathering some kind of a first mover’s advantage here…I have always felt and openly admitted that honesty and transparency in a relationship is of utmost importance in building and strengthening the trust between two people, nurturing it all the way long. No trust, no love, period!!
I am not denying the fact that there may be issues of the past one may not want to divulge simply because it’s a thing of the past and has nothing to do with one’s future, but what about those pasts that come to haunt the present and the future…. Pasts that questions the whole fundamental of the relation, pasts that are well equipped to destroy the lives of two people if it doesn’t come to light well in time
Why should either of the two be punished for mistakes committed by their partners in the past… not fair, not fair at all!!
A fellow blogger in her blog had once written, If you don't tell anyone, you can pretend it never happened, but as soon as you tell, it becomes a reality, and you have to face it and that is exactly what has happened. Now that it is out, its time to face the music!!!!
Like I said have decided to move on and I am conciously taking every step I can in that very direction….and I reiterate No trust no love, that’s the bottomline!!!!
- Girish Vaithyanathan
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